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Why I Choose to be Single?

Some single people feel tremendous pressure to be married or to be in any relationship. They would devote their time and money to be with someone or a partner who is sometimes apathetic or not just serious about them.
As I was reading my devotional lesson for the day, God revealed to my heart why being single or having a relationship (or at least getting married) is never important to our Christian lives.
However, I want to stress out Why I choose to be Single?
1 Cor 7:32-34 (NASB) says

2But I want you to be free from concern. One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord;

33but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife,

34and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband.

It revealed to me that being in a relationship will never complete my being as a Christian. However, as Paul pointed out that there is an advantage of being single. That is the potential of a greater focus on Christ and His work. It says that if one is unmarried, one should use one’s special opportunity to serve Christ wholeheartedly.
Many people naively think that marriage will solve all their emotional problems. I believe here are some problems that marriage won’t solve. The examples are:

1. sexual temptation, 2. loneliness 3. satisfaction of one’s deepest emotional needs. 4. elimination of life’s difficulties.

What I understand that being in a relationship alone does not hold two people together rather it is the commitment to Christ. It is our first priority that we are going to seek HIM always. If we are constantly seeking for that special someone, it will steer us away from our focus to God. Thus, it will make us a stumbling block. And we must remove stumbling blocks in our lives. Any relationship, practice, or activity that leads to sin should be stopped.
Above all else, whether you are in a relationship or not, or may choose not to be involved in any relationship, we must be content with our situation and focus on Christ.

Fear of the LORD is the foundation of true knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.
- Proverbs 1:7

How can we neglect this wonderful promise?

As I was researching about how the Holy Spirit intervenes through the lives of God’s people, I found an article that I find very interesting. It describes about an owner of a motel who experienced the love of God. That motel used to be a haven for illicit affairs to happen, maybe even prostitution or such. When he was convicted by the Holy Spirit to give up his chains of motel, he accepted.

I can imagine that along the way it may be very difficult for the owner to easily give it up. This requires him to trust in the Lord completely. I can imagine the determination of the Holy Spirit to win him over to God.

The Holy Spirit has been very consistent in this field. But the wonderful thing is when the owner gave up his life and his business. According to other reports, he repackaged these motels to family oriented hotels where there are prayer rooms, conference room. Most interesting to note is when most of the employees are transformed as well.

Truly, God is lifted-up in this transformation; and God is in the business of transforming lives. Praise God!!!

Read the story below:

source: http://www.philstar.com/article.aspx?articleid=75177
Motel chain shuts down for God
By Jerry Botial (The Philippine Star) Updated July 26, 2008 12:00 AM

There will be fewer lovers’ trysts in Metro Manila as the owner of one of the most popular motel chains in the country said he had succumbed to “God’s will” and decided to padlock the last of his establishments.

Wyden King, chairman of Anito Hotels Inc. (AHI), said the closure of the 137-room Anito Arellano Kalookan in Bagong Barrio was the proverbial last nail on the coffin of his family’s decades-old motel business. The Kalookan branch, built in 1992, was the last in the chain of 14 Anito motels.

“The ways of the Lord are very strange and we can’t fully comprehend them. Many people, too, do not understand our letting go of this business,” King, 54, said.

“We did not want the devil’s mammon going into the family coffers,” said King, a born-again Christian.

He said the closure was also in celebration of the birth of his and his wife Antonia’s twin granddaughters.

He said the Kalookan branch was closed on July 17 or ahead of the Aug. 8 original schedule.

“We actually closed on July 17th. We were hoping our daughter would give birth on Aug. 8 but Antonia gave the final closure order when (the twins) were born on the 17th,” he said.

King dramatized his disdain for his old business by slashing with a knife the familiar red apple logo on the canvas signage that was brought down from its perch during ceremonies marking the Kalookan motel’s closure.

A white tarpaulin over the main gate read: “Anito Hotel closed for the glory of God.”

The closure was also a religious event attended by family and friends, and even former self-confessed patrons of the motel.

Pastors of the Caloocan Ministers Association (Camia) and the Metro Manila for Jesus Movement officiated at the religious ceremonies.

‘Devil’s altar’

The ceremonies included King’s sprinkling of water on a bed to exorcise “the devil’s presence.”

“The beds are altars to the demons. We have to destroy these altars of wickedness. We are redeeming (this place) from the gates of hell,” he said. “This is the reason why we need to close this business.”

King said the beds were mute witnesses to sins like abortion, suicide, incest and drug abuse, among others.

“I declare all the beds redeemed, (the hotel) totally closed and destroyed in the name of Jesus. I also destroy my covenant with the devil,” he said.

“Our love for mammon had blinded us all these years. I declare this covenant totally cancelled,” he declared.

King also asked forgiveness from city officials for encouraging corruption by offering bribes, among others, to promote his business.

‘God’s order’

King, who became a born-again Christian in 1992, said God told him to stop expanding in 1994. He said he tried to obey and put up everything for sale but “these were not enough” to make him give up the business. He started closing the first motel in Pasay in 1998.

“It took a long time to obey God. This (closure) was a fulfillment. It was not easy. But his grace sustained me. I knew I had to obey him,” he told his audience as he tried to hold back tears.

“I was blinded by money but it took the grace of the Lord to open my eyes. He found me. Yet it was a struggle to let go,” he said.

Multi-million earnings

King, who takes pride in being both a La Sallian and an Atenean, started the business some 30 years ago.

King told The STAR that the business was making more than P2-million a day before the oil crunch. He admitted that the current crisis had affected revenues but this was not why he gave up the business.

He said some 11,000 individuals “used” his motels daily and their “lives were ruined by falling into immorality using these rooms.”

Inspiring leadership

Delfin Sigua, AGC vice president who has stuck it out with King since the beginning, said he shares the man’s inspiring leadership, vision and values.

The mid-90s, he said, were a turning point in their pursuit for growth and excellence. King’s conversion brought a profound change to his outlook, especially in business.

“The passion to grow became ‘get out of the business’. We struggled. Anxiety, fear came but little by little we understood. We had no conscience to speak of. The end justified the means. We knew there was a big price to pay in this business,” Sigua said.

“If you are not with me, then we have to part ways,” King told him. He stayed on.

AGC soon became preoccupied with closing down the business. The next problem was how to deal with some 2,000 workers who faced job loss.

“King knew how to take care of his employees. He prepared them and made them share the same vision he had. He trained them as kingdom builders in the marketplace,” said Sigua.

“The people who come here (to the motels) do not pray because they do other things. The employees do,” said pastor Joshua Bontogon, Camia chairman.

King said he was sad because many employees decided to leave. He said some were absorbed by other businesses run by the family.

King told The STAR that he has not entirely left the hotel industry. Some of the motels have been retained and repackaged while a few others have been sold to interested buyers.

King said he still doesn’t know what to do with the Kalookan lodge.

Wyden and his brother Archie, whom he described as “not yet a believer,” are the sons of philanthropist Angelo King.

I recently came across a very interesting article about a gay guy who has struggled about his spirituality. Truly, in this part of the world, the Holy Spirit is moving through the heart of every people to change inside and out. My prayer is that He will listen to that call.

I just believe that there is nothing wrong with him. I am on the same boat and my life has never been the same when I took heed. This reminds me of this verse from Acts 2:17 which says, ‘AND IT SHALL BE IN THE LAST DAYS,’ God says, ‘THAT I WILL POUR FORTH OF MY SPIRIT ON ALL MANKIND; AND YOUR SONS AND YOUR DAUGHTERS SHALL PROPHESY, AND YOUR YOUNG MEN SHALL SEE VISIONS, AND YOUR OLD MEN SHALL DREAM DREAMS;

Truly, God is the God of Change. Praise be to God.

Read more below…

Source: http://www.theonion.com/content/news/gay_teen_worried_he_might_be

LOUISVILLE, KY—At first glance, high school senior Lucas Faber, 18, seems like any ordinary gay teen. He’s a member of his school’s swing choir, enjoys shopping at the mall, and has sex with other males his age. But lately, a growing worry has begun to plague this young gay man. A gnawing feeling that, deep down, he may be a fundamentalist, right-wing Christian.
“I don’t know what’s happening to me,” Faber admitted to reporters Monday. “It’s like I get these weird urges sometimes, and suddenly I’m tempted to go behind my friends’ backs and attend a megachurch service, or censor books in the school library in some way. Even just the thought of organizing a CD-burning turns me on.”
Added Faber, “I feel so confused.”
The openly gay teen, who came out to his parents at age 14 and has had a steady boyfriend for the past seven months, said he first began to suspect he might be different last year, when he started feeling an odd stirring within himself every time he passed a church. The more conservative the church, Faber claimed, the stronger his desire was to enter it.
“It’s like I don’t even know who I am anymore,” the frightened teenager said. “Keeping this secret obsession with radical right-wing dogma hidden away from my parents, teachers, and schoolmates is tearing me apart.”

According to Faber, his first experience with evangelical Christianity was not all that different from other gays his age.
“Sure, I looked at the Book of Leviticus once or twice—everybody has,” Faber said. “We all experiment a little bit with that stuff when we’re growing up. But I was just a kid. I didn’t think it meant anything.”
Faber’s instinct was to deny these early emotions. But recently, the Louisville teen admitted, the feelings have grown stronger, making him wonder more and more what life as a born-again right-wing fundamentalist would be like.
“The other week, I was this close to picketing in front of an abortion clinic,” the mortified teenager said, his eyes welling up with tears. “I know it’s wrong, but I wanted so badly to do it anyway. I even made one of those signs with photos of dead fetuses and hid it in my closet. I felt so ashamed, yet, at the same time, it was all strangely titillating.”
Faber’s parents, although concerned, said they’re convinced their otherwise typical gay son is merely going through a conservative Christian phase.
“I caught him watching The 700 Club once when he thought he was alone in the house, and last week, I found some paperbacks from the Left Behind series hidden in his sock drawer,” his mother, Eileen Faber, said. “I’m sure he’ll grow out of it, but even if he doesn’t, I will love and accept my son no matter what.”
Faber’s father was far less tolerant in his comments.
“No son of mine is going to try to get intelligent design into school textbooks,” Geoffrey Faber said. “And I absolutely refuse to pay his tuition if he decides to go to one of those colleges like Oral Roberts University where they’re just going to fill his head with a lot of crazy conservative ideas.”

He added, “I just want my normal gay son back.”

I came across this peculiar group in Facebook. Funny thing is, they call it “Don’t call Jesus a bro”. I joined the group so that I could take part in their discussion. Unfortunately, I’ve got the same hateful message from the members which is entirely ironic. So after posting a message, I realized that it is not really good to be part of a society who forced their moral high-horses to people; just because it is something bad and “unacceptable”. I felt like I was transported back in the days of Jesus where Pharisees and Sadducees are dominant in their idea about “spirituality”. I have had my piece. And I took my stand. Below is my response on their idea. I left the group right after that.

I am not against the idea about calling Jesus as bro (moniker/alias for brother).

He is a brother to his siblings. He became a teacher. He became a healer, a best friend (to Lazarus) a provider, etc. He came on earth as a human. I am not going to discount that He is perfectly human and perfectly God.

But the idea here is how you see Jesus. Calling Him bro means He is someone dear to us. Perhaps for Santino, He is closer than a best friend. He became a brother to him. But of course, this is a work of a number of scriptwriters.Baka may Christian na scriptwriter and to him/her, Jesus is like a BRO. And the network adapts it. We have to understand that calling him bro does not discount the fact that Jesus is less than a God to us. Who is Jesus in your life? What personal relationship do you have with Him?

If you remember, John 11:35, it shows “Jesus wept”. He cried because of His concern to his best friend and all the people around Him. This goes to show that he is not impersonal.

Hating is not a solution for all of these. It gives a wrong message to everyone (especially for those who have not accepted HIM). If we love Jesus, we may disagree but we must show love as well. We don’t want to be the Pharisees who show like we know the Bible but we act the opposite.

I hope this group will serve as an instrument to get more people to learn Jesus as our Lord and personal Savior.

By the way, I call Jesus, Bes. Coz He is my best friend.

Ano ang tawag nyo sa kanya?

God bless you all!

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